Stuck on Simple Query and Form from 2 Tables

I know I should know how to do this and have probably done it before, but
can't seem to get it right:

Tables: Households (Many) Committees (One)
Fields: (Standard Contact Info Fields) (Chair & 12 # fields for Members)
Many to One Join on Committees.ID to Households.Committees_ID

I want to be able to build a Committes query and form that 1) in the form
selects a name from a Households.Head dropdown list in each Member (1, 2, 3,
etc) field; 2) after selection, displays Phone and Email info beside each
Committe.Member's name; 3) stores relational data in the proper table.

I haven't done much Visual Basic, but I have a little experience with macros.

Any tips, pointers and outright solutions are greatly appreciated.
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Green and Growing,

-wiz